Why Social Life is Scary? We are constantly surrounded by people that tell us that we need to grow our social life. We need it in order to be happy. But let me tell you one thing you don’t wanna hear: we don’t. Cause, sometimes social life can be like the story in “The Truman Show”.
Of course we need people that will enrich our time. I am not talking about the few human beings that we would gather around the table on our final dinner on Earth. I am talking about all the others. People that we surround ourselves with and don’t matter to us, don’t care about us, don’t enrich our lives.
We are naturally afraid of what we don’t know and it’s not good to be afraid. We fear loneliness and being social. At the same time, we cherish the moments when we are alone and when we have somebody to keep us company.
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We became fake social animals. Always in need of an hug, but worried to make the first move. Always thinking that people are strange, when we are the people.
Sometimes, don’t you feel like you are in a game? One step forward, two steps back? If you look around, don’t you see that Instagram, Facebook, Youtube are our alternatives to try and keep up with a world that is full of boredom, darkness and shit? We are trying to make our own fairy tales and to bring them into this world, so everyone can see.
Social animals as we are, we still became comfortable in our own homes, watching others making the mistakes we cannot make, because we are afraid. We constantly searching for answers, for people that got the answers before us, to try and have a guidance, when in truth there is not one.
We are all here just to live and learn, day by day. Nobody has written a book on how to live, that is why we are always learning.
Social life has become fake. (if it was ever true) One like on Instagram can bring us a smile, one nice comment can make up for a conversation with our friends, but sometimes people just give something to get it back in return.
Truth is we are all determined to get over the shit and get the flowers to bloom in our own secret gardens. Not everyone can make it, at least not in the short run. That is why we are running as fast as we can, always looking if others are running as fast as we are, but we fail to see what’s in front of us. We need to stop and think if that is what we want to reach. And if yes, we need a plan that is gonna last, so we can set our own time for the people we love.
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