I used to watch “Ten things I hate about you” on repeat. Heath Ledger was impossible to skip and my heart was pounding when he would start to sing “Can’t take my eyes off of you“.
I know there is no romantic mood in this topic, but I had to bring that movie up as my brain related it to today’s article.
10 THINGS I HATE
I am usually not an hateful person and I really don’t see the point in fighting with someone! (communication=always)
But I have things that I really have problems to tolerate. And I guess you have too?
1 Injustices
First things first and this has always been on top of my list. I just can’t wrap my head around injustices and if I could I would be the Justice Sailor!
Not just life is full of things that don’t make sense, don’t work out and don’t lasts, but also people are pretty mean to their similar. Often, they choose bullying, killing, hurting others. And this is never the answer. I hate to see people picking on somebody and throw bad words to them. Especially when that person was disable, different, depressed and lonely. I have always had a huge empathy and I put myself in others’ shoes all the time. This is the way to try and understand people and situations. (even if sometimes I still can’t)
2 Fights
As I have mentioned before, I’ve always been up for smiling and talking, but never for fighting. It happened I had fights with few people, but it was while I was still growing up and for silly things. After that, I’ve always avoided fights at all costs. They drain your energy, they keep you awake at night. It’s not worth it. Oh, I also hate people who likes to fight. (makes sense, uh?)
3 Distance
Being away from home and seeing my family every once in a while it’s tough for me. I am a very affectionate person and I love hugs. I love to laugh and talk about silly things and I really miss the people I can do that with. It’s funny though, when I’m going back things pick up like no time passed at all.
4 Latecomers
Oh yes, I’m the girl who is always early and I get that it can be boring for some people. For me it’s a sign of respect. If I’m late, there’s always a reason or I really didn’t care. I don’t understand people that are constantly late and they know they are, but still don’t bother to make the effort. Why should I wait?
5 Studying
I couldn’t bother to open a text book and when I did it was to close it ten minutes later. I consider myself to be quite intelligent, but being smart doesn’t mean being good in studying. In school, when I was a little worried about a test coming up, I would ask my schoolmate to repeat the lesson out loud and I would learn from it. When I tried University, I found out why I actually never opened a text book to study. I simply couldn’t. Unless I opened Harry Potter, a fashion magazine or a book that I really liked, nothing else would grab my attention.
6 Work
Whatever job I do, it doesn’t really matter. I just hate to spend my days at work, under somebody else’s control and interest. I feel like everything that I yearn for has to wait forever, just because I am trapped 8 hours a day inside a work environment.
If I could, I would become freelance today and be a fashion blogger. At least, I would manage to have my own time to put into my interests. Even if I have started years ago, it’s still a long way to go for me… but I cannot stop dreaming now. (I’m just 29 afterall, right?)
7 Waiting
8 Insects
I was very small when it all started. I was afraid of cats and dogs first of all and then bees and spiders. I love cats and I like dogs now, but I’m still afraid of bees and spiders and really any insects. That is why I choose UK over Australia…
9 Traffic
I have a driving licence since I was 18, just because I knew that I wouldn’t be going to have it later on in my life. (and I was right) I hate driving in traffic and this is one of the reasons, if not the one, that made me stop driving. I don’t need to here in England, but when I go back home in Italy, if you don’t drive you don’t go anywhere. (I’m from a small town, you know) Traffic makes me anxious and stressed. I need to get back behind the wheel in future though…
10 Narcissistic Individuals
Okay, I just have to say that your website is amazing and your pictures and design are stunning! I’ve also really enjoyed reading this post and have to say, I agree with you on most points. I especially related to hating work because you are working under someone else’s control and because it takes up so much of our day. But what I found is that when you look for a meaningful job that you enjoy doing it is a lot more bearable (:
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Aww thanks so much June!! You are a kind soul to read through all of it! Means a lot! x
???????? for being late it’s so rude. And also fights – I hate confrontation and avoid it at all costs sometimes even if it means not sticking up for myself. Great post!
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Yes! I agree, thank you for passing by Nicolle!! x
Great post! I also hate distance and not being able to hug loved ones!
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Me too it sucks!! x
I think it’s safe to say I agree with all ten lol
I also hate insects and I hate working under someone else’s control!
Great post 🙂
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I hate waiting. Especially in traffic. Great Post!
Julia from http://www.fashion-stoff.de